Thursday, May 16, 2013

11 Kinds of Preachers by Peter Mead


The fourth world. That’s what Haddon Robinson called it.

He took John Stott’s two worlds of preaching — the world of the Bible and the world of the contemporary listener’s culture — and he added two more. First, the specific culture of the local congregation (which may differ sharply from the contemporary culture in general). Then, the fourth world — the inner world of the preacher. We have to understand all four worlds to preach effectively.

I’d like to probe that fourth world in respect to personality types.

Now I know these are controversial. There are those in favor and those against. There are advocates for this taxonomy and those pushing for another. Some oppose them altogether. Some people refuse to be labeled (perhaps a personality thing); others love it (ditto). I’ll let you chase the type tests and theoretical discussions elsewhere. I’m going to try to avoid an exhaustive taxonomy of personality types and instead probe various possible features with a focus on preaching.

Before we dive into this non-exhaustive interaction with some aspects of personality types, let’s be clear on the premise. If you are a preacher, you preach. As much as I understand the spirit behind the prayer, “Lord, let me be invisible today; let us all only see you!” the reality is that people will see you.

And you will show in your preaching in more ways than just your physical presence. Your personality will be a grid through which the message passes multiple times in preparation and delivery.

So let’s jump in:

1. The Dutiful Preacher


Some personalities are strong on issues of duty. They are serious and diligent, responsible and dependable.

They tend to promote tradition, work hard and work steadily. I imagine that this type of person will be sure to follow a preparation process carefully (and as a teacher of preaching, I feel encouraged that someone might!). The hours needed for good preaching preparation will probably be found by this personality when others somehow won’t be able to find the same!

I feel like I spend a lot of time affirming preparation on this site, but the picture is not all rosy here. There may be a tendency to look for duty and to prioritize the presentation of duty. Perhaps the motivation will be assumed in others. Energy may be poured into what should be done, without focus on why or understanding of why some seem to be, well, irresponsible. When the gospel sweeps through the hearts of a community, it will change that community for the good. But there is always a danger, for many personalities, to assume that community good is the goal and to short cut directly there. Changing hearts cannot be bypassed.

Continuing my unstructured thoughts on the influence of personality on preaching:

2. The Mechanical Preacher


This person cares about how things work. Practical in skills. Practical in life. They esteem the uncomplicated things in life, yet achieve the complex from the perspective of others. The end can justify the means, as long as a practical solution is found. I imagine this type of person will preach with a good level of applied practicality. Here is a solution to the challenge; go implement it. People appreciate being given the steps to obedience rather than just the expected behavior.

However, there will be a limitation here. People are not machines. It is so easy to preach as if they are. When you face this, do this, think this, remember that, and then you will do well. Actually, life isn’t lived out in logical and practical steps. There is a profound complexity to the motivational life of any person. There is a responsive interconnectedness between individuals in relationship with God and others. Practical preachers are a blessing to the church but especially if they don’t treat people as simple machines.

3. The Nurturing Preacher


This person is kind and caring. Sensitive to others and willing to give themselves away for those they love.

I imagine that this type of personality gets people quicker than others, although that quickness may come from lots of time caring, listening and praying. Such tender sensitivity is a blessing to those loved. We can all learn from the ways warm and caring people communicate warmth and care (but not to perform; we need to develop that inner reality).

Those who read others well need to be sure to read the text carefully and to preach it honestly. There is a danger that a high concern for others can bias the reading of the text so that messages of help can be sought rather than the message of the text. And then when the text is understood, we all need to have the courage to preach that appropriately to our people. Sometimes, a fear of hurting feelings can undermine caring biblical ministry. Care for people and care enough to invest God’s Word in the life of the church. Perhaps there should be another category of The Conflict Avoiding Preacher ... but then I’d be repeating this paragraph!

4. The Creative Preacher


Developed aesthetic sensitivity, an eye for beauty, an energy for the new and the striking.

I suppose this personality feature will also offer benefits and dangers. New and creative ways of communicating the Word can offer memorable and effective presentations. It can also offer error. Others do, too, but there is something risky about the new in terms of the ministry. Be careful to use the energy for creativity (a godly characteristic) in a way that represents Him and His Word well.

Here are some more musings on the multi-faceted complexity of our inner world. How does your personality mark your preaching?

5. The Writing Preacher


A clear-thinking and able wordsmith who can write with considerable natural talent. They can’t imagine living in a non-literary age or living without books.

There are obvious pros and cons here, too. Preaching is also communicating, and being able to think through to a point of clarity is a key skill. However, writing and speaking are very different communication forms. Clear writing can lose listeners. All of us need to learn to write messages in spoken English, rather than written English. Alternatively, we need to not write our messages at all but to plan them as spoken events. That thought would set off some personalities and not just the lovers of writing!

6. The Professor Preacher


This person loves and retains information. They read, they memorize, they analyze; they store tons of biblical, theological and historical data.

What an advantage for preaching. The ability to make links with other texts, to hold it all together in the mind and to draw it all in from various sources without having to chase things from scratch.

But there is a downside. Relevance might get lost. Preaching is not a data dump. Listeners may struggle to follow apparently tenuous connections or just get tired of information overload. The person with this tendency as a preacher will need to learn to cut and edit maliciously. Most struggle to simplify messages enough. This personality type will struggle more than most. Listeners also would probably like to know the preacher beyond the obvious ability to handle and connect information.

7. The People Person Preacher


Great people skills are worth so much and are so complex to have to learn but nice for those who are naturals! Ability to connect, to interact, to feel comfortable, to tell stories, to be vulnerable, etc.

While a lot of preachers may be more introverted, the advantages of focused solo study can be balanced by difficulties in communication (or more commonly, in post-preaching interaction). The people person preacher can stand up and say the alphabet in a way that makes people feel warm and connected. And hence both pro and con.

8. The Power Preacher


This person likes to be in charge; they naturally lead groups they find themselves in, and they always look for ways to influence others.

Preaching can be a bit of a no-brainer role for them in some settings. Now there are massive connections between preaching and leading. But there are also massive connections between our content and a non-worldly servant leadership model of the inverted pyramid. This preacher will be able to communicate vision and may have people naturally respond to them.

But it is important to have people respond to the Bible, rather than just to the preacher. Perhaps every personality type would do well to check their motives for preaching, but perhaps this type should do so more quickly and thoroughly than some others.

9. The Performer Preacher


Typically people-oriented, very extroverted and fun loving. Naturally enthusiastic and potentially highly engaging. They like to be the center of attention in social situations. This person will bring energy into the preaching moment. They will bring enthusiasm and joy. They will bring more emotion than some personality types could dream of expressing. Some visitors will feel enthused; some regulars will excuse and enjoy.

However, this personality type needs to know that their personality will aggravate some others. The energy will grate. The emotion will be considered a false front. The hype will be seen as a poor attempt to hide a lack of content. This personality type can be perfect for some situations. In every situation, there needs to be care for content to come in the package of energetic delivery; otherwise, the naysayers will be proven right.

10. The Inspirer Preacher


Another natural communicator with a natural ability to engagingly explain and apply biblical truth with intensity. This person will be seen as a good preacher by others, whether or not the content is as profound as they give the impression that it is.

However, sometimes the intensity may seem to come with the public speaking rather than from the power of the content. This personality type needs to channel the same energy into their study as they naturally produce in their delivery. They probably need to understand that some personality types will struggle to maintain the level of inspired intensity while listening to them!

11. The Visionary Preacher


Intellectually quick, they see a preferred future in most situations and are able to communicate that sensitively and powerfully. They may have energy for creative planning but lack energy for maintaining the important routines in personal life and church life. People in churches without clear vision and direction can feel starved of leadership. This type of preacher can be a real blessing to such a church.

However, not every visionary statement can be followed through on by all listening. This personality needs to be sure to affirm and to support and to encourage the present activities and routines, where appropriate, rather than only seeing the better future and continually presenting that. People appreciate direction and vision, but they don’t do well being constantly critiqued and evaluated negatively.

I have deliberately avoided 16 types, for obvious reasons. There could be many more than the 11 I’ve listed.

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Why some preachers get better... and others don't.


The following is an article by Hershael York...

I often have to answer the strangest question anyone could ask a preaching professor: “Do you think preaching can be taught?” I always want to respond, “No, I’m just going through the motions for the money.” Of course I never do, not only because it’s best not to say the smart aleck things I sometimes think, but because I know what they mean when they ask. It’s not really an unfair question.
No one denies that a preaching class and some coaching can help anyone become better. What we question is the possibility that someone with no natural giftedness and ability can be taught well enough that he can become really good.

For the last 16 years I’ve sat in a seminary classroom, listening to student sermons on an almost daily basis, and I’ve heard every kind of sermon and every level of preacher.

I’ve seen guys so nervous that they had to stop and vomit during the sermon, and I’ve been so moved by a student’s sermon that I felt I had been ushered into the presence of the risen Christ. I’ve seen guys who were no better the fifth time they preached for me than they were the first time, but I’ve seen guys whose initial sermon was depressingly awful turn it around so radically by the end of the semester that I almost couldn’t recognize them as the same preacher.

On the first day of the semester, or the first time I hear a student preach, I have no way of knowing if he has what it takes or is willing to do what he must to be the preacher he needs to be, but I can usually tell by the second sermon if he does, because that is when he has to act on what I told him after his first sermon.
What makes the difference?

1. Calling

The most frustrated preacher is the one who has a sense of duty, but not a burning calling.
Preaching is not just another helping profession, a Christian version of politics or the Peace Corps. The call to preach is a definite demand issued by the Holy Spirit that ignites a fire in one’s bones that cannot be extinguished by the hard-hearted, stiff-necked or dull of hearing.

A preacher who has been called must preach what God has spoken simply because God has spoken it. The success of one’s ministry will depend on the strength of his calling. His willingness to work at his preaching will be proportional to his conviction that God has called him to preach and to be as fit a vessel for God’s use as he can be.

The Holy Spirit must undergird everything else from preparation to delivery, and that will not happen apart from that calling.

2. Teachability

Being a preaching professor is like getting paid to tell a mother that her baby is ugly. It might be the truth, but it’s not a truth anyone wants to hear.

Most guys I have taught dread my comments and cringe when I tell them they missed the point of the text or seemed unprepared. They tire of hearing me tell them they lacked energy or failed to establish a connection with the audience.

Every now and then, however, someone smiles gratefully as I offer corrections and suggestions.
Someone may even say, “I want you to be really tough on me. Tell me everything I’m doing wrong because I really want to do this well.” That guy is going to be fine because his spirit is teachable and he’s willing to pay the cost of personal discomfort in order to be effective. He understands that he is a vessel in service of the text, and his feelings are not the point.

3. Passion

Almost all my students are passionate about Christ, about reaching the lost and about the Word of God. The problem is not that they don’t feel passionate, but rather that they do not show passion. What I feel is never the point, whether good or bad, but rather how I act.

If my delivery of the Word does not convey that passion, then my audience will not be moved to be passionate about it either. The prophets were all passionate. The apostles were passionate. Jesus was passionate. Why else would farmers, fishermen and housewives come and stand in the Galilean sun for hours just to hear Him?

I once heard a missionary preach at the Southern Baptist Pastors Conference. He was dynamite, preaching a great expository sermon with incredible energy and moving the entire audience by his treatment of the Word and his testimony of baptizing tens of thousands of Africans. Astonished by his great preaching, I approached him and held out my hand to introduce myself.
“Hershael,” he said, shocking me that he knew my name, “we went to seminary together.” Embarrassed, I admitted that I did not remember him. “You had no reason to,” he explained, “I was very quiet, never spoke in class and never went out of my way to meet anyone.” I asked him to explain what happened.

“When I got on the mission field, no one would listen to my preaching of the gospel. I was putting them to sleep. When I came stateside and preached in churches, they were bored to tears. Finally, I realized that the only way to be effective was to preach the Word in the way it deserved to be preached, so I became willing to go beyond my natural personality and comfort zone and allow God to make me effective. I prayed for the Word to so grip me in the pulpit that I would never be boring again.”

His teachability led him to show a passion that was not natural to his introverted personality. It was supernatural.

4. Reckless Abandon

The generation of students I now teach have grown up with the written word — on screens, smart phones, blogs, Kindles and now iPads. Through video games they have raced cars, built civilizations, won wars, destroyed zombies and killed hundreds.

They communicate orally far less than any previous generation, and when they do so, they typically do it with less passion. Yet God still uses the preaching of His Word — an oral event — to edify the church, encourage the saints and engage the lost.

So to preach the Word, a young man has to be willing to get completely out of the comfortable cocoon he’s built in his personality and habits, and recklessly abandon himself to risk being a fool for Christ.

I tell my students, “That little voice inside your head saying ‘That’s just not who I am’ is not your friend. Sanctification is the process by which the Holy Spirit overcomes ‘who I am’ and shapes me into who He wants me to be. So if I need to preach with a reckless abandon that is foreign to my natural way, I will beg the Holy Spirit to help me do it for Christ.”

Pay the Price
Frankly, very few students I teach fail to get the meaning of the text. They often demonstrate an exegetical and hermeneutical sophistication that astounds me. They are serious about the Word.
But they make the mistake of thinking that if they just feel that way, and if they just say the words, the preaching will take care of itself. And if they keep thinking that, if they insist on “data dump” sermons that just concentrate on the content and not also on the delivery, there’s not much I can do for them. They will be the kind of preachers they want to be.

But if someone has a burning calling, a teachable spirit, a passionate heart and a reckless abandon to pay the price to preach well, then not even the limitation of their own background, personality or natural talents will keep them from preaching the Word of God with power.

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

What makes a well-defined Leader?


Great insights from John Holm....

In my work as a professional coach, and with the help of others, I’ve learned what makes a successful leader. Many people feel that it has to do with technical and/or strategic skill sets or knowledge. Knowledge is important, but it’s not central. Others believe it is critical thinking skills. That too, is important, but it’s not what I’ve found to be at the core of a great leader.

What is needed in every great leader is for the leader to be “well-defined.” I’ve rarely coached someone who decided that more knowledge or more skill would help them become a successful leader. Instead, what they needed to learn was more about themselves.

A Well-Defined Leader is one who is internally aligned. What they say complements what they do. It looks like this:

1. Their thinking rules over their emotions.

2. They’re a non-anxious presence.

3. They have firm, appropriate boundaries.

4. They have clarity of self and their own goals.

5. They consider self when problems arise.

6. They welcome conflict that is centered on mission.

7. They know their own core values and live them out in actions.

Think of a leader you respect and would love to learn from. They most likely fit the description above. Now think of a leader who struggles, who does not have many followers. They are probably struggling to be well-defined in some or many ways.

Becoming a well-defined leader does not happen overnight. It is a process of growth and maturity. But there are some core steps:

1. Identify and articulate your core values.

2. Identify and articulate your goals.

3. Identify what makes you anxious, and ask yourself why — what is your life story that plays into that anxiety?

4. Identify and articulate the values and goals of the organization you lead within.

As you can see, it begins with learning about self, the good (core values) and what you struggle with (anxieties). Leadership always begins with truly understanding who you are, and what’s important to you. It moves to what your weaknesses may be. Knowing the good and the gaps in you is the core to good leadership. You can always gain knowledge and learn new skills, but even before you do — learn about yourself.

So, if you want to grow in your leadership, take the time to know yourself. That will take you on a journey of self-awareness. Once you are self-aware, you can begin to navigate leadership in more successful ways.

Friday, February 08, 2013

5 Things Every Young Pastor Should Know


The following is a great article written by Rob Pochek. I'd wish someone would have shared this with me over a decade ago. I was probably to immature to listen but it's good advise anyways.

I left my breakfast meeting with a young pastor and realized, with a measure of sadness, I was no longer a "young pastor." He was facing a number of ministry challenges that seemed very familiar to me.

As I shared with him some of the lessons I had learned, he remarked, "I wish I had known this three years ago." It occurred to me that the lessons I shared with him were ones I wish I had been told when a small country church allowed a rough, unrefined college student to get his feet wet in ministry. As I look back, there are (at least) five things I wish I had been aware of when I was just starting out:

1. You are pastoring a parade.

The first time I had a family leave the church I was leading, I was personally hurt. I thought I had really messed up as a pastor, or in my more frustrated moments, I thought they "just didn't get it." What I failed to realize is, sometimes, God removes people from your ministry for your benefit. And, I am sure, sometimes he moves them for their benefit! It was John Maxwell I first heard say, "Every pastor pastors a parade ... people are always coming and going."
As I have watched people "come and go" over the years, I have learned to trust solely in the Lord to bring people who would add benefit to the church. It is, after all, his church to build. Indeed, God often removes someone in order to drive us to him, and then blesses us with someone else who adds tremendous value to the church. So, as a young pastor, be prepared for the fact that people will come and go, and trust that God is doing so for your benefit and for the good of the body.

2. The people who demand the most serve the least.

As a young pastor, my assumption was the people who gave and served most faithfully would demand most of my attention. The truth was the exact opposite. The people who demand the most are typically those who give the least and serve the least. And, upon reflection, that makes sense.
When people are faithful and obedient to give of themselves and their resources to advance God's Kingdom, they are far less inclined to believe they should have a pastor's undivided attention. So don't be surprised when those most disappointed in you and who criticize you the harshest are those who have the least invested in the ministry of the local church.

3. You will see ugly behavior.

I have to be honest — this lesson comes from my wife. I asked her what she wished she would have known when we first started out. Her comment was, "You will see the ugliest behavior you can imagine in the church." Now, please don't think of my wife as a bitter crank. She is not. Rather, as the wife of a young pastor, she was not prepared for the "ugly behavior" she saw.
As a young pastor, it is important to remember you are not the only one who hears the criticism of others. You need to be sure to help your family understand such behavior is sin and we ought not return sinful behavior with sinful behavior. Instead, let the Lord defend you as you exhibit Christlikeness in the face of criticism.

4. You are irreplaceable (but not at church).

A lot of pastors act as if they are irreplaceable at the church they are serving. That is why they cancel or postpone family outings and activities to attend to the latest need of a church member. But being irreplaceable at the church is not what is intended here. Rather, you are irreplaceable at home. Think about it: You likely were not the first pastor of the church you are serving, and hopefully you won't be the last. But your role as husband and father are the only truly unique roles you will have in life.
I first heard this idea from Andy Stanley at a critical time in my life. I spent nearly half of my pastoral ministry taking my family for granted as I tried to be the pastor everyone else wanted me to be. Thankfully, I have learned it does not profit us to grow a "successful" church and lose our family. A careful examination of 1 Timothy 3:1-7 and Titus 2:6 illustrates the importance the Lord places on your faithfully discharging your duties as husband and father as a prerequisite to serving as a pastor.

5. Preach the Word.

Every year the market is filled with the latest books on how to grow a church. Some of that advice is really good, being based on solid research into churches that are growing. Others are not so good. The temptation for young pastors is to find a concept or idea that they resonate with and decide to run with it. Or worse, they simply attempt to copy what is working somewhere else.
However, while there is much to gain from missiologists and church growth practitioners, there is one thing that must not be forgotten. The only thing we have to say that is of any value to our people is found in the Word of God. No church growth gimmicks, slick presentations or changes in style can replace the power of the man of God, hidden behind the cross, preaching Christ from all of Scripture.
When I was a younger pastor, I wish I had been warned about these things. As a more experienced pastor, I have to remind myself of them constantly. Regardless of which describes you, may we all be mindful to "not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up" (Galatians 6:9).

Man Up Event


 Night Celebrating Biblical Masculinity
February 16th, 2013
7:00 - 8:30 P.M.
Miller Park Community Center
- 400 Leisure Ln. Winston Salem, NC 27103
Man Up is a combined effort of several ministries in the Triad area including:
Empowering men to be a force for the Kingdom of God.

Helping men understand the heart God has given them.
One of the main goals of Love Out Loud is coordination:
Understanding how local churches and Christian organizations are working towards the flourishing of our city, coordinating for maximum use of resources and collaborating for deepest impact and loudest witness...

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

The Sin of Impatience


"No-one wants acorns, but everyone wants oaks." ~ Steve Fowler

"The greatest temptation of our time is impatience, in its full, original meaning: refusal to wait, undergo, suffer.” ~ Eugen Rosenstock-Huessy

For my yearly read-thru the Bible I choose to go the "chronological" route this time. Thank you https://www.youversion.com/

As you can imagine, it's difficult to read the Bible in chronological order without beginning in the book of Genisis. As I've been re-reading some of the incredible early stories of our faith, I have been drawn to a common theme throughout the entire 50 chapters of Genesis that is still as prevalent today as it was then...

The "sin of impatience". Or the more modern wording, "I want it now".

Because none of us want to recognize impatience as a sin right?

John Piper puts it this way, "Impatience is a form of unbelief. It's what we begin to feel when we start to doubt the wisdom of God's timing or the goodness of his guidance. It springs up in our hearts when the road to success gets muddy or strewn with boulders or blocked by some fallen tree. The battle with impatience can be a little skirmish over a long wait in a checkout lane. Or it can be a major combat over a handicap or disease or circumstance that knocks out half your dreams."

When the way you planned to run your day, or the way you planned to live your life is cut off or slowed down, the sin of impatience tempts you in two directions, depending partly on your personality partly on circumstances:

1) On the one side, it tempts you to give up, bail out. If there's going to be frustration and opposition and difficulty, then I'll just forget it. I won't keep this job, or take this challenge, raise this child, or stay in this marriage, or live this life. That's one way the impatience tempts you. Give up.

2) On the other side, impatience tempts you to make rash counter moves against the obstacles in your way. It tempts you to be hasty or impulsive or reckless. What we're waiting for is really important. It can't wait. Lives are at stake. Dreams will be lost. I'll never get another chance.

Ge 16:1-2 Abraham and Sarah who did not wait for God to give them the son he had promised
Ge 25:30 Esau’s impatience cost him his birthright
Nu 20:9-11 Moses Israel
1Sa 13:6-12 Saul made the offering without waiting for Samuel
2Sa 13:2 Amnon with his half-sister, Tamar
Lk 15:2 The younger son could not wait for his inheritance

This list could go on, and on, and on, and on...

The sin of impatience reveals our desire to be in control by desiring others to conform to our expectations. If that is true, then the events in our lives are not necessarily the things that cause impatience, they are just the means by which the sin of control is manifested in our lives.

Ok, so how do I deal with my impatience?

First, we can deal with the sin of impatience by praying the Lord would convict us and empower us to rid this sin from our lives. A simple prayer is not enough to do the trick though. It's about recognizing you have jumped ahead of God. And by doing so you tried playing god.
 
In addition, when we sense ourselves growing impatient, we should remind ourselves, as Paul did Timothy, that in saving us God exercised His patience toward us (1 Timothy 1:16). If God, the Ruler of the universe, can exercise patience towards us while we were rebelling against Him, then we can exercise patience toward someone or something that is not running on our schedule.
 
Lastly, we need to remind ourselves that God is the one who is in control. The circumstances that occur in our lives are brought about and are used by Him to teach us and grow us, even the ones that might give us opportunity to become impatient.
 
Is it easy? Nope. But I know from experience that every time I jumped ahead of God there has been a 100% failure rate. Those few times I have waited on God, I have always got what I needed, when I needed it, at just the right time.

Thursday, January 24, 2013

2013 Church Conferences



JANUARY 2013

Jan 16 :: Children’s Pastors Conference (Orlando, FL)
Speakers: Reggie Joiner, Jim Wideman, Beth Guckenberger, Craig Jutila, Phil Vischer
Length: 4 days
Cost: $493

Jan 22 :: GCA Church Planting and Renewal Conference (Orlando, FL)
Speakers: Josh Bales, RuthAnn Bastone, Stu Batstone, Tim Brister, Tim Cain, Bob Cargo, Steve Childers, Charles Cooper, Sean Cordell, Reggie Kidd, Larry Kirk, Fred Marsh, Randy Nabors, Bob Orner, Randy Pope, Ted Powers, Tami Resch, Tim Rice, Ted Sinn, Ed Stetzer, Mike Tilley, Tom Wood
Length: 4 days
Cost: $450

FEBRUARY 2013

Feb 6 :: Next Level Conference (Savannah, GA)
Speakers: Cam Huxford, Jon Weece, Jim Tune
Length: 3 days
Cost: $110

Feb 13 :: C3 Conference (Dallas, TX)
Speakers: Ed Young, Judah Smith, Steven Furtick, Carl Lentz, Steve Kelly, Lee Strobel, Dr. Ed Young, Kevin Gerald, At Boshoff, Stovall Weems, Terry Crist, Leo Bigger, Buddy Cremeans, Pedro Garcia, Dave Martin, Steve Munsey, Willie George, Marion Jones
Length: 3 days
Cost: $249

Feb 18 :: Children’s Pastors Conference (San Diego, CA)
Speakers: Reggie Joiner, Jim Wideman, Beth Guckenberger, Craig Jutila, Phil Vischer, Greg Laurie
Length: 4 days
Cost: $463

Feb 18 :: Velocity Conference (Atlanta, GA)
Speakers: Steve Aylor, Adam Bishop, Steve Caton, Caleb Crider, Armando Fullwood, Shawn Lovejoy, Tracy Lovejoy, Paul Loyless, Larry McCrary, Mel McGowan, Keven Myers, Todd Nichols, Jim Sheppard, Dave Travis
Length: 2 days
Cost: $99

Feb 21 :: Ligonier National Conference (Orlando, FL)
Speakers: R.C. Sproul, Alistair Begg, Sinclair Ferguson, R.C. Sproul Jr., W. Robert Godfrey, Steven Lawson, Cal Thomas, Ravi Zacharias
Length: 3 days
Cost: $169

Feb 23 :: Storyline Conference (San Diego, CA)
Speakers: Tom Shadyac, Mike Foster, Caitlin Crosby, Bob Goff, Al Andrews.
Length: 2 days
Cost: $279

MARCH 2013

Mar 1 :: Verge Conference (Austin, TX)
Speakers: John Perkins, Matt Carter, Alan Hirsch, Neil Cole, Jo Saxton, Dave Gibbons, Hugh Halter, and more
Length: 2 days
Cost: $159

Mar 1 :: Simply Youth Ministry Conference (Indianapolis, IN)
Speakers: Lecrae, Greg Stier, Margaret Feinberg, Propoganda, Jon Acuff and more
Length: 4 days
Cost: $379

Mar 2 :: National Religious Broadcasters Convention (Nashville, TN)
Speakers: Claire Diaz-Ortiz, Nick Hall, Pete Briscoe, Eric Metaxas, Rob Saliterman, Jennifer Rothschild, Raul Ries, Tony Evans, Joni Eareckson Tada, Katie Harbath
Length: 4 days
Cost: $650

Mar 6 :: Seeds Conference (Tulsa, OK)
Speakers: Willie George, Marty Sklar, Robert Barriger, Steven Furtick, Leon Fontaine, Shannon O’Dell, Craig Groeschel, Matthew Luhn.
Length: 3 days
Cost: $199

Mar 6 :: Converge Conference (Indianapolis, IN)
Speakers: Josh McDowell, Lisa Welchel, Jon Acuff, Matthew Barnett, Bary Clardy, Perry Mead, Carlos Inocedcio, Russell Hylton, Mike Kreps, Rob Whitlow.
Length: 4 days
Cost: $89

Mar 7 :: National Leadership Forum (Lakeland, FL)
Speakers: Phil Cooke, Jon Gordon, AmyK Hutchens, John Maxwell, John Ortberg, Nancy Ortberg, Sarah Palin, Mark Sanborn, Pat Williams
Length: 2 days
Cost: $450+

Mar 11 :: Drive (Atlanta, GA)
Speakers: Andy Stanley & Northpoint Staff
Length: 3 days
Cost: $279

March 14 :: Northwest Ministry Conference (Seattle, WA)
Speakers: Miles McPherson, Richard Dahlstrom, Sherry Harney, Joanna Beasley, Jeff Kemp, Carrie Abbot, Michelle Anthony, John Stearns, Dain Spore
Length: 3 days
Cost: $99

Mar 19 :: Advance13 (Raleigh, NC)
Speakers: John Piper, Matt Chandler, Bryan Loritts, David Platt, J.D. Greear, Tyler Jones, Larry Osborne, Steve Timmis, D.A. Horton, Brian Bloye, John Bryson, Blake Wilson, Brian Fikkert, Rupert Leary.
Length: 3 days
Cost: $107-127

Mar 21 :: Catalyst One Day (Lexington, KY)
Speakers: Craig Groeschel, Andy Stanley
Length: 1
Cost: $119

APRIL 2013

Apr 9 :: Ideas to Impact Conference (Orlando, FL)
Speakers: LettieJo Bailey-Johnson, Tyrone Barnette, Tabitha H. Barnette, Jenni Catron, Steve Durie, Rex Frieze, Maxwell Garcia, Father Rick Gremillion, Danielle Harper, Lanelle Henderson, James B. Jordan, Jason Lee, Jack L. McGinnis, Linda McKeirnan, Joel Mikell, Jack Paige, Jeanne Penoyar, Bill Sanders, Sherri Schumm, Mark Springer, Teresa Springer, Greg Surratt, Nicole Unice.
Length: 4 days
Cost: $423

Apr 11 :: Pastorum Live (Chicago, IL)
Speakers: Mark Futato, Mike Goheen, John Walton (more TBA)
Length: 2
Cost: $79

Apr 15 :: Q Conference (Los Angeles, CA)
Speakers: Brad Lomenick, Tom Krattermaker, Bobette Buster, Dale S. Kuehne, Margaret Feinberg, Rebekah Lyons, Tim Chaddick, Richard Stearns, Tyler Wigg Stevenson.
Length: 3 days
Cost: $725

Apr 15 :: All Access Conference (Baton Rouge, LA)
Speakers: Craig Groeschel, Robert Morris, Priscilla Shirer, Ed Young, Greg Surratt, Rick Bezet, Chris Hodges, Dino Rizzo, Stovall Weems
Length: 4 days
Cost: $79

Apr 17 :: Catalyst West (Orange County, CA)
Speakers: Andy Stanley, Louie Giglio, Jim Collins, Christine Caine, Dallas Willard, Matt Chandler, Pranitha Timothy, Tom Shadyac, Jud Wilhite, Manny Ohonme, Chip Heath, Israel Houghton, David Crowder, Joel Houston, John Eldredge, Mike Erre, Dave Gibbons, Mark and Jan Foreman, Jim Daly, Bianca Olthoff, Jasmine Star, Brianna Glenn, David Hodges, Cress Williams, Christa Black, Sergio de la Mora, Nancy Ortberg, Larry Osborne, Jeremy Cowart, Charles Lee, Jeff Shinabarger, Caitlin Crosby, Nikole Lim, Kara Powell, Hugh Halter, Charles Jenkins, Carl Lentz, Claire Diaz Ortiz, Propaganda, Bobby Duran, Kevin Olusola, Miles McPherson
Length: 3 days
Cost: $259

Apr 22 :: Exponential Conference (Orlando, FL)
Speakers: Craig Groeschel, Jim Putman, Alan Hirsch, Mike Breen, Francis Chan and 100+ other speakers
Length: 4 days
Cost: $179

Apr 24 :: The Orange Conference (Atlanta, GA)
Speakers: Andy Stanley, Charles Jenkins, Reggie Joiner, Kara Powell, Perry Noble, Bob Goff, Sue Miller, Lanny Donoho, Carey Nieuwhof, Jared Herd, Stuart Hall, Sherry Surratt, Brad Lomenick, Jeff Shinabarger.
Length: 3 days
Cost: $279

MAY 2013

May 2 :: International Pastors & Leadership Conference (Dallas, TX)
Speakers: Bishop T.D. Jakes (more TBA)
Length: 3 days
Cost: $150

May 2 :: Thrive (Roseville, CA)
Speakers: Patrick Lencioni, Francis Chan, Margaret Feinberg, Miles McPherson, Chris Brown, Ray Johnston.
Length: 3 days
Cost: $236

May 2 :: Summit 9: Christian Alliance for Orphans (Nashville, TN)
Speakers: TBA
Length: 2 days
Cost: TBA

May 13 :: National Worship Leaders Conference (Lancaster, PA)
Speakers: TBA
Length: 3 days
Cost: $280

May 20 :: Moody Bible Institute’s Pastors’ Conference (Chicago, IL)
Speakers: Voddie Baucham, Alistair Begg, Henry Cloud, Michael Easley, Daniel Henderson, Abe Kuruvilla, Tommy Nelson, Paul Nyquist, Ray Pritchard.
Length: 4 days
Cost: $220

JUNE 2013

June 6 :: NAIITS Symposium on Indigenous Mission & Theology (Toronto, Ontario)
Speakers: TBA
Length: 3 days
Cost: $225

June 24 :: D3 Youth Conference (Louisville, KY)
Speakers: Albert Mohler, Eric Bancroft, Kurt Gebhards, Shannon Hurley
Length: 4 days
Cost: $279

JULY 2013

Jul 1 :: Hillsong Conference (Sydney, Australia)
Speakers: Bishop T.D. Jakes, Judah Smith, Joel & Victoria Osteen, Rick Warren, Craig Groeschel, Kari Jobe.
Length: 5 days
Cost: $259 AUD

Jul 9 :: North American Christian Convention (Louisville, KY)
Speakers: Matt Proctor, Rick Atchley, Aaron Brockett, Dr. Wayne Cordeiro, Ken Davis, Randy Harris, Kyle Idleman, Eric Metaxas, Mark Moore, Amani Mustafa, Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, Dr. Mark Scott, Bob Shannon, Dr. Frank Smith, Jr., Joni Eareckson Tada, Ann Voskamp, Jon Weece, Wing Wong
Length: 4 days
Cost: $95

Jul 15 :: National Worship Leader Conference (Leawood, KS)
Speakers: James MacDonald, Ian Morgan Cron, Dr. Marva Dawn
Length: 4 days
Cost: $345

Jul 24 :: Echo Conference (Dallas, TX)
Speakers: Donald Miller, Matt Chandler, Jon Acuff, and many more
Length: 3 days
Cost: $169+

July 24 :: Hillsong Conference (London, UK)
Speakers: Judah Smith, Louie Giglio, Chris Tomlin
Length: 3 days
Cost: £110

Jul 29 :: Send North America (Dallas, TX)
Speakers: TBD
Length: 2 days
Cost: TBD

July 31 :: Wave Conference (Virgina Beach, VA)
Speakers: TBD
Length: 3 days
Cost: TBD

AUGUST 2013

Aug 8 :: The Global Leadership Summit (Simulcast out of South Barrington, IL)
Speakers: TBD
Length: 2 days
Cost: $349 (on site) $249 (satellite)

SEPTEMBER 2013

Sept 3 :: Experience Conference (Orlando, FL)
Speakers: Miles McPherson, Robert Morris, Pete Wilson
Length: 4 days
Cost: $289

Sept 19 :: Circles (Grapevine, TX)
Speakers: Matthew Smith, Jeff Sheldon, Cameron Moll, Brad Smith, Lotta Nieminen, Patrick Mahoney, Morgan Knutson, Megan Gilger, Josh Hemsley, Micah Davis, Matt Stevens, Terry Storch
Length: 2 days
Cost: $195

Sept 24 :: Wiki Conference (Katy, TX)
Speakers: Soong-Chan Rah, Jonathan Reitz, Bill Woolsey, (more TBA)
Length: 3 days
Cost: $129

OCTOBER 2013

Oct 2 :: Worship Facilities Conference & Expo (Atlanta, GA)
Speakers: TBA
Length: 3 days
Cost: $175

Oct 4 :: National Youth Workers Convention (San Diego, CA)
Speakers: TBA
Length: 3 days
Cost: $249

Oct 11 :: Kidmin Children’s Ministry Conference (Chicago, IL)
Speakers: TBA
Length: 4 days
Cost: $359

Oct 11 :: Thriving Summit (Philadelphia, PA)
Speakers: TBA
Length: 2 days
Cost: $99

Oct 14 :: Gateway Conference – Formerly Connect + Gateway Worship Conferences (Southlake, TX)
Speakers: TBA
Length: 2 days
Cost: $129

Oct 14 :: Vault (Las Vegas, NV)
Speakers: Vince Antonucci (more TBA)
Length: 3 days
Cost: $100

Oct 15 :: ReInnovate
Speakers: TBA
Length: 2 days
Cost: TBA

Oct 21 :: The Sticks Conference (Orangeburg, SC)
Speakers: TBA
Length: 2 days
Cost: $99

NOVEMBER 2012

Nov 6 :: RightNow (Dallas, TX)
Speakers: JR Vassar, Larry Osborne, Dave Ferguson (more TBA)
Length: 3 days
Cost: TBA

Nov 7 :: Youth America Leadership Conference (Oklahoma City, OK)
Speakers: Carl Lentz, Kari Jobe, David Perkins, Grant Pankratz
Length: 3 days
Cost: $65

Nov 7 :: Organic Outreach Conference (Monterey, CA)
Speakers: TBA
Length: 3 days
Cost: $99

Nov 22 :: National Youth Workers Convention (Dallas, TX)
Speakers: TBA
Length: 3 days
Cost: $249

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Billy Joel and Musical Maturity

 

There's a game I like to play called, "What did I like when I was my kid's age?" For Joshua it's easy, he's three and enjoys peeing in his pants and watching cartoons, just like dad at his age. Maria is a bit tougher due to the fact I was never a seven year old girl. Substitute Barbie for Luke Skywalker and I guess we're not that much different.

We always hear that kids today are growing up way too fast, or at least faster then their parents and grandparents did. But a realization hit me this weekend that makes we question that theory.

For our recent trip to Atlanta, I loaded up the cd player (yes we still listen to cd's) with all kinds of tunes for our listening pleasure. One of my all-time favorite artist, and the last performer left on my concert bucket list, is Billy Joel. "The Essential Billy Joel" was one of the first cd's in the changer.

Now Billy and I go way back. As we were jamming out to some "Uptown Girl" and "Tell her about it", the songs took me back to when my mom bought me my first album ever. Billy Joel's "Innocent Man" was my reward for doing well in school that year (and by good I mean passing). She had heard me singing along to the "top 8 at 8" every night for the entire school year. The top 8 list was full of Joel, Michael Jackson, and Culture Club (confession: I also own another one those albums but I refuse to admit which one).

As we were listening to Billy belt it out while I was playing the roll of Casey Kasem dropping all kinds of  Billy knowledge on Beth, it hit me; that album is 30 years old. First, how did I get to old so fast and secondly, how did those songs get so old that fast? My heart almost stopped when I thought about the age I was when I received that album from my mom, 9 years old. The same age Jacob is now.

How in the world did I as a nine year old understand what Billy Joel was even singing about? Could it be possible that Jacob would enjoy that same style of modern pop now a days?

Maybe it's the fact that Beth and I never listen to pop music. Maybe it's the fact that since he isn't exposed to it like I was as a nine year old he has somehow held off on his musical maturity. I can't fathom Jacob coming home and asking for "_____________" (insert any top 10 album/cd/download)

But at nine years old I was singing along to "Innocent Man", Karma Chameleon" and "Beat It".

Have I sheltered my kids or was I too unsheltered? Was music of the early 80's more fun and "innocent" then it is now or are Beth and I to "out of touch" (I was a Hall and Oates fan too) with music now for our kids to experience the same joy of pop songs as we did?

All I know is I can't believe my mom let me listen to that music as a nine year old...but I'm thankful today she did!

The Fence

The Fence

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily, gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold hi...s temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.” You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.

- Author Unknown

Friday, January 04, 2013

2013 Sermon Series...so far (sneak peek)


I had the privilege of sitting down with my lead pastor today to map out our 2013 messages from now thru June. Needless to say I am pumped!! Some amazing topics and scriptures that I can't wait to see how God uses. So here's a sneak peek of what's to come at Main Street Baptist www.msbc.cc

Series: A Simple Life
Jan 6 Outer Simple Life (part 2)

Guest Speaker
Jan 13 Alex McFarland

Series: Dangerous Church
Jan 20 A Safe Church
Jan 27 A Dangerous Church

Series: Those People
Feb 3 Overly needy People
Feb 10 Manipulating People
Feb 17 Hypocritical People
Feb 24 Critical People

Series: “Famous Last Words”
Mar 3 “Father, forgive them”
Mar 10 “My God, My God, Why?”
Mar 17 “It is finished”
Mar 24 “Today you will be with me in paradise”

Easter 2013
Mar 31 Easter Celebration Service

Series: “How to Follow Jesus (without embarrassing God)”
Apr 7 How to Follow Jesus (without embarrassing God)
Apr 14 How to Exhibit a Christian Lifestyle (without moving into a commune)
Apr 21 How to Talk about Prayer (without saying things that make God look bad)
Apr 28 How to Have a Devotional Life (without becoming a monk)
May 5 How to Be Positive about Women (without being negative about men)
May 12 How to Care for People (without being exploited)
May 19 How to Think about God (without being brainwashed by modern philosophies)
May 26 How to Be Involved in Church (without letting it eat you up)

Series: “Enemies of the Heart”
June 2 Enemies of the Heart (intro)
June 9 Guilt: I Owe You
June 16 Anger: You Owe Me
June 23 Greed: I Owe Me
June 30 Jealousy: God Owes Me

Tuesday, January 01, 2013

Beatitudes of 2013?

1. Blessed are those who are too tired, too busy, too distracted to spend an hour once a week with their fellow Christians — they are my best workers!

2. Blessed are those Christians who wait to be asked and expect to be thanked — I can use them.
3. Blessed are the touchy who stop going to church — they are my missionaries.
4. Blessed are the troublemakers — they shall be called my children.
5. Blessed are the complainers — I’m all ears to them.
6. Blessed are those who are bored with the minister’s mannerism and mistakes — for they get nothing out of his sermons.
7. Blessed is the church member who expects to be invited to his own church — for he is a part of the problem instead of the solution.
8. Blessed are those who gossip — for they shall cause strife and divisions that please me.
9. Blessed are those who are easily offended — for they will soon get angry and quit.
10. Blessed are those who do not give an offering to carry on God’s work — for they are my helpers.
11. Blessed is he who professes to love God but hates his brother and sister — for he shall be with me forever!
12. Blessed are you who, when you read this think it is about other people and not yourself — I’ve got you too!

Saturday, December 29, 2012

My Favorite Movies of 2012


At the beginning of 2012, I had no idea I'd end up watching 25 movies this year. As you can see from the list below, the fact that I have 3 kids played a huge role in my movie selection. I thought about splitting the list into "kids" and "adult" but honestly, most of the kid flicks I saw this year were better then the adult ones. So here is my "favorite" list for 2012. Agree, disagree, it doesn't matter. Movie opinions are solely up to the taste of the person watching it. That's why there will never be a "best", just a "favorite".

1) Django Unchained
2) Avengers
3) Moonrise Kingdom
4) The Hobbit
5) The Dark Knight Rises
6) Rise of the Guardians
7) Wreck-it-Ralph
8) Jeff, Who Lives at Home
9) Brave
10) The Amazing Spiderman
11) The Lorax
12) John Carter
13) The Dictator
14) Diary of a Wimpy Kid: Dog Days
15) The Grey
16) Hotel Transylvania
17) ParaNorman
18) The Pirates! A Band of Misfits
19) Journey 2
20) The Three Stooges
21) Man on a Wire
22) Woman in Black
23) Ice Age: Continental Drift
24) Madagascar 3
25) Abraham Lincoln: Vampire Hunter

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

New Fall Shows Reviewed

A few weeks ago I posted a list of my most anticipated new Fall shows. Some have met me expectations, some exceeded, while other have fallen well short. Here are my thumbs up, thumbs down, and TBD of the new season.

1) Elementary (Tuesdays 10pm CBS) TBD

2) Revolution (Mondays 10pm NBC) Thumb Down

3) Arrow (Wednesdays 8pm CW) TBD

4) 666 Park Avenue (Sundays 10pm ABC) Thumb Up

5) The Mindy Project (Tuesdays 9:30pm FOX) Thumb Down

6) Animal Practice (Wednesdays 8pm NBC) Thumb Down

7) Ben and Kate (Tuesdays 8:30pm FOX) Thumb Down

8) Guys and Kids (Wednesdays 8:30pm NBC) Thumb Down

As far as my favorite returning shows...

Dexter is back! It's off to a great start. Let's hope this season make us fans forget last season ever happened.

The NBC Thursday night shows are all off to solid starts. 30 Rock and The Office are in their farewell seasons and Parks & Rec is remaining fresh with new story lines and locations.

I've given up on New Girl. Same jokes week after week. Not a very smart comedy.

Modern Family and The Middle are off to terrific starts! My two favorite families on TV!

This week The Walking Dead, Duck Dynasty, and American Horror Story are back!!!